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The Power Of One....Chris Janson

During our first pastorate in Perryville, Missouri, we had so many great experiences. One of those experiences was meeting a young man at t...

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Today is the first day of the rest of your life. It is new with no mistakes in it., full of GRACE!


Saturday, February 28, 2015

Friday, February 27, 2015

Friday Tea Time

I hosted a tea party for 15 Promise Ladies in the beautiful Phelps House in Carthage. We had a blast!!! Loved being with these amazing ladies!!

Thursday, February 26, 2015

Birthday Bliss

You are the best mom in the world. (a bit cliché, I know) You have always been here for me and the family through the good times, and the bad. I love you, and I hope that Spencer CraneAshton Crane, and I make you proud! Happy birthday!(copied from Facebook)

A great day to have a birthday with friends at Aviary's for lunch with gifts and more gifts that night with a family dinner at PF Changs in Rogers, AR.

Friday, February 20, 2015

The Language Of Letting Go 2

Separating From Family Issues 
From the Book The Language of Letting Go by Melody Beattie

"We can draw healthy boundaries and separate our selves from our families issues.
Some families have members that have addiction problems like drugs,food, alcohol, porn, and others also including addicted to misery, suffering, martyrdom, and victim mentality. We have family members that have unresolved issues of abuse from their past. We have to realize that we may be like our family but we are SEPARATE. We have separate choices. As humans we have rights. One of those rights is to feel better and recover wither or not other members of our family does not choose to do the same. We do not have to feel guilty about making that choice. Separating from their issue does not mean we do not love them it means we are free human beings. Often times when we make those choices our family member will manipulate us in trying to  pull us back into their old systems and roles. Choosing not to get involved with their brokenness does not mean we do not love them. It means we are addressing our own issues.
Today I will separate myself from my families issues. I am a separate human being even though I am a part of a family unit. I have a right to my own issues and growth!"

Accepting Help

"We feel so alone that we forget there is help. We tell ourselves that we have to do it all by ourselves.
God is there always ready to help. Take the risk of asking for help. We can call on the strength of our brothers and sisters in Christ and your recovery life groups.
There is no shortness of LOVE. You are not alone!
Today God help me give up the need to think I need to do this all by myself. Help me to tap into your divine power and presence. Open my eyes to see all the help, love and support that I need."


"If we are unhappy without a relationship, we'll probably be unhappy with one as well. A relationship doesn't begin our life; a relationship doesn't become our life.A relationship is a continuation of life.
Beyond Codependency

Each day we are faced with the prospect of functioning in several different relationships. Our goal is to behave in ways that demonstrate responsibility for ourselves. We have power to take care of our selves in all our relationships.We do not need to detach ourselves from people we have been trying to control. Recovery is not done apart from on another. Recovery is done by learning to own our power and to take care of ourselves in all relationships. I will ask for what I need and give what feels right."

Next Week We Will Talk About Dealing With Painful Feelings.

Thursday, February 19, 2015

Quote For The Day

Never compare your journey with
 someone else's journey. It is
 YOUR journey! It really isn't a competition.

Phineas's New Cut

Our Cockapoo needed a new cut. He was looking a little crazy! Today was the day!

We were met by the stores dog Peggy.

Wednesday, February 18, 2015

My Creative Son

Austin is such a creative quiet soul. He has a great heart and a deep Faith. As a thinker and problem solver he challenges problems head on. I am proud of him. He is doing really great in college this year with high grades. http://www.fullsail.edu/
. Although his goal is to run his own company and work in Seattle. I say dream big and do all that you can to accomplish them.(including Praying)
His goal is to become a Film Producer/ 3D Modeling Engineer/Game Designer

So Proud of you!!!

Promise Church